![]() This one can be such a relief to hear instead of another piece of unsolicited advice. When you actively listen to someone, they feel validated, which is important to people with a chronic illness.ĩ) I just wanted to check up on you and let you know I miss you! After being out of the loop for a while, it’s nice to know that your friends miss you and think of you - and that they want to be around you whenever you’re up to it.ġ0) You’re doing everything you can. The idea is to let someone know you’ve really heard what they’ve told you by reflecting that back to them in your own words. Good wishes that give a nod to those limitations take the pressure off and let you know they ‘get it.’Ĩ) It must be difficult to be in pain or feel sick all the time. No matter how hard you try to ‘be well,’ a chronic illness limits your well being. It’s nice to hear someone acknowledge they understand you may look good but not feel well.ħ) I hope you’re as well as possible. When someone expresses understanding, it’s a great relief.Ħ) You look so good, but how are you really feeling? When someone says you don’t look sick, most of the time they think they’re paying you a compliment. Guilt from having to cancel plans because of not feeling well, or not having the energy, is common for people with MS. This acknowledgement can be a really big motivator to someone who feels as though no one understands how difficult it can be to push through the tough times.ĥ) Don’t feel bad if you have to cancel plans at the last minute, I understand. It’s validating and comforting.ģ) Can I bring you food? Or is there a chore around the house I can help with? Doing the dishes or putting together even a simple meal can be a huge energy drain when fatigue sets in, so when others take care of these tasks it can be a big relief.Ĥ) I know how hard you’re trying. This one of the most powerful things you can say to someone with a chronic illness such as MS that has invisible symptoms. Ultimately this is the truth behind any other heartfelt statement so it’s a good all-round sentiment to express when nothing else comes to mind.Ģ) I believe you. ![]() I will drop in one of these days to see you.As a person living with MS, you’ve likely got a long list of things that well-meaning friends and family have said to you that you’d like to never hear again - such as the dreaded “ But you don’t look sick.” You know what you don’t want to hear, but have you thought about what you do want people to say to you? Here are 10 suggestions from others who have a chronic illness.ġ) I wish I knew what to say, but I care and I’m here for you. Still you should take care not to exert yourself too much. I am sure you will be up and about within a few days. Now that you are better, everybody can take a sigh of relief. I understand your illness had made everybody panicky. I am delighted that the plasters on your thighs have been finally removed and you have been discharged from the hospital. The moment I get some time, I will be with you in Delhi. As soon as I get some time, I will come to Delhi to see you.ģ7. I hope this is your last trip to the hospital.ģ6. Accept my best wishes for a speedy recovery.ģ5. Thank God that you are back to good health now.Ĭonclude with a few words of ‘Good Wishes’:ģ3. I am sending you a few novels and comics to give you a company during your rest time.ģ2. Thank Cod! Your parent’s worries are over now.ģ1. Don’t let him/ her play around too much for a few days.ģ0. Take full rest for some more days/ according to the doctor’s advice.Ģ9. Please be sure to take some good tonic in consultation with your doctor.Ģ8. Please take care of your diet as per the doctor’s advice.Ģ7. ![]() Still you should take care not to exert yourself too much.Ģ6. Why don’t you join us here for a few days? It being a hill station, the climate is very good here.Ģ5. Hope you will start going to office soon.Ī word of advice for regaining the health would convey your sincere feelings to the person:Ģ4. Finally, you will be able to accompany your children to Shimla, this summer.Ģ3. I don’t think your health will be affected anymore like this.Ģ2.
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